During my 19 years old, my regular journey to work was on an express bus. It was perpetually crowded and invariably became without any seats by the time I boarded.
One particular morning, I began feeling terribly ill while the vehicle swayed around each corner. I repeatedly told myself to persevere another few kilometres before the bus reached my destination, so I could then rush hurriedly for the nearest public restroom to throw up.
As we neared the street towards the stop when I realised I would not be to hold on. All of a sudden, it felt as if a fog descended upon me. My vision turned white and really quiet; similar to when one cut the sound. I said to myself, “I will lose consciousness”.
Fortunately, I stood toward the front on the bus, so I managed several steps forward and told the operator to open the doors, telling him that I was about to get ill. The driver opened the doors and I stumbled out onto the sidewalk.
I was resolved not to vomit in front of a busy multi-lane road, so I forced myself up and endeavored to walk to the park on the other side, where I believed I’d at least be able to discreetly hide behind a bush to be sick. Yet I must have lost consciousness. I was aware of my body but I was unable to walk and my vision was blurry, so I started crawling towards the park.
“You right, love?”
In that instant, someone picked me up. I sensed someone holding me and a man’s voice asked, “Everything alright, love?” I explained to this kind passerby that I needed to get to a bathroom. So he virtually helped me walk into an adjacent building and guided me into the female bathroom. He asked me if I needed him to remain with me but I declined.
After a short while, I had recovered to the point of sitting down and from outside the stall I heard him inquire, “Are you OK, love? Is there anything you require?” I wasn’t able to get up just then but I was able to thank him and shortly thereafter recovered the use of my limbs. I made my way home and spent the following days recovering from which was a horrible case of gastroenteritis.
I never glimpsed his features – just his lower half along with a sizable steelwork tools container he held – but he saved me, when I was completely helpless.
Many times, life has a way of making you defensive, aggressive and competitive. His was the sort of gesture that reverses that emotional callousness. He demonstrated that humanity’s innate tendency is towards kindness, something I love about humanity.
A data scientist and business strategist with over a decade of experience in transforming raw data into actionable insights for global enterprises.
Matthew Walker
Matthew Walker
Matthew Walker
Matthew Walker
Matthew Walker
Matthew Walker